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I have many friends who when dating struggle to determine if their potential interest is a "good match". Prior to meeting my wife, I was advised by a mentor to create a "mate must" list. The list essentially creates a series of items you desire in a potential mate. Some of the items may be frivolous such as "hair color or weight" - while others may be non-negotiable such as "must love kids" if you have a child. The list will help you tangibly evaluate a date by issues that matter to you.

I believe a healthy relationship is when you can look at the relationship and honestly say you are happy at least 80% of the time. If you you aren’t then maybe it is time to move on.

Start a gift-giving tradition with a loved one by buying a sturdy gift bag and using it for their gift year after year. It doesn't matter the size or shape. Get creative with what you put in it each year. It's really a lot of fun for the recipient and you buy one less "disposable" gift bag.